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September 24, 2007

true or false?

The other day I finally had a free moment to get myself that deep tissue massage I've been needing ("kneading"--haha).  Although I know I need to have the muscles worked on more frequently than I do, I can never schedule an appointment way in advance because I am incapable of planning.  I can't quite shake the feeling that something better (more amusing, for example) might come along on that day sometime in the future.  For this reason, I cannot schedule hair appointments in advance, and I honestly feel under pressure when I make medical and dental appointments because those have to be in advance.

Usually I'll just get a wild hair and call up my massage place to see if one of my two favorite masseuses is available within a few hours.  This is how things went down the other day, and I was jacked to hear that Shea had an opening.  I took care of a few things, then drove to my appointment.  I was so excited to finally have my shoulder worked on because my rotator cuff has been vexing me.  When I walked in she greeted me by asking, "How ya doin'?"

"Oh fine, except I'm fighting off a cold," I replied.

"Oh? Since when?"

"Yesterday.  It's not bad; I'm taking zinc and vitamin C and doing the saline rinse in my nasal passages. I'll be fine."

She hesitated, then said, "Oh.  I can't work on you today. It will only make you worse." 

I had never heard of this before.  I would think that massage, like a good sweat during a workout, would squeeze the sickness out or something.  But Shea was adamant in her refusal to knead me. 

"Besides," she continued, "you don't want to get anyone else sick."  Huh? Doesn't she wash her linens after each customer?

So here's my question: was Shea lying to me, or would massage really turn my budding cold into a much worse ailment?  I got the feeling that she maybe just didn't want to touch me for fear that she would get sick, but it's not like I was planning to French her or anything.  It's not that kind of massage place.  And besides, couldn't she just wear a mask and sterilize her magic fingers after touching me?

storm, the castle

All last week local weatherpersons got their forecasting panties in a bunch about the huge unseasonal weather system that was scheduled to take Southern California by storm.  I mean, it's alllllll they talked about, as if the end of the world loomed.  First they predicted the heavy rains and thunderstorms would to hit Thursday, then that was changed to Friday.  You know what? Here's what Friday looked like from where I sat:

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I won't say there is nary a cloud in the sky, but I see no cumulonimbi foreshadowing the doom that was certain to befall us. 

And it's a good thing because I had earlier in the week promised the kids that if this typhoon/monsoon did not hit by the time I picked them up from school Friday we could make our annual pilgrimage to the Costume Castle. (Smart Southern Californians avoid driving in the first rain of the season because the roads are slick with oil and all other drivers are idjits.)  We make this trip not to buy, but to look.  We get ideas for costumes and we also just try stuff on for the hell of it.  I love costume stores like I love magic shops and old-fashioned toy stores.  But, and here is a really big butt [pointing to rear], I hate the Costume Castle during the month of October.  It's too crowded and because the parking lot is laid out poorly, all those cars coming in and out means that at any moment two or more parties will be involved in a fender bender, thus clogging up the parking lot even more. 

In September, however, I am happy to be welcomed to the Costume Castle.

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The Costume Castle had about five purple-vested employees working each aisle, mostly goth youth with some emo kids thrown in, all wanting to know whether they can help me.  No, I told them politely (at first), they cannot help me browse.  Browsing is for my own self-amusment.  What good is browsing with an unknown goth person half my age? If they asked me once, they asked me a thousand times whether they could help me.  Leave me alooooooone! I wanted to shout.  I wish to browse!

And yet.  Yet when it came time that I really did need help, Costume Castle was not there for me.  Jade and Kai both had to pee like Russian racehorses.  Well they didn't say as much, but I recognize the behavior of Russian racehorses, having had to pee like one myself plenty of times.  Jade claimed to know where the Costume Castle bathroom was. "Was"--that is the operative word here.  We three ventured back through aisles and more aisles, then darted in and out of back rooms of still more costume paraphernalia to where the bathroom once "was," only to encounter a goth employee who inquired (yes, you guessed it) "May I help you?'

"Yes, we're looking for the bathroom," I said.

"We don't have one," said he.

"You don't?" I asked, incredulous because I know Jade traveled the maze of aisles two years ago to use it. I specifically remember worrying about her taking so long as I waited at the front of the store with a toddling Kai, knowing only that some goth woman had led her away from me to the bathroom.

"No."

[Pointing to Jade] "But she's used it before, haven't you Honey?"

[Jade shook her head affirmatively.}

"Oh," he offered.  "It's broken. It's been broken for ... um, a year.  And no one's fixed it yet," he offered.

"Really?  Hunh.  So what do you do when you need to go? Where do all of these employees go?"

"Oh yea. Uh, we walk across the parking lot to the all day breakfast place. We use the bathroom there."

Riiiiiiiight.

As we walked away, I swear I could smell that liar's pants totally on fire.

Imgp2196 Everyone knows Condi Rice is a badass (even though she lists that inane song "Celebration" as one of the Top Ten Musical Works of All Time), right?  How 'bout me--am I a badass disguised as Condi Rice?

In fact, I find this picture disturbing and creepy like Patrick Swayze as Richard Nixon in the awesomely awesome Point Break--or Patrick Swayze without the mask--is disturbing and creepy. Like that Bloody Scream mask is disturbing and creepy.

Ah, disturbing and creepy--exactly the look Kai was going for.  This year he headed straight to the aisle of gore* where all the other, older (ergo, cooler) boys were fighting over which costume was the scariest.  I admit my dismay plus a longing for the innocent days of The Dash and Clark Kent morphing into Superman.  Alas, you cannot stop a moving train.  Or can you?  I reminded Kai that he would not be able to wear the bleeding ghoul costume to his school's Halloween parade (they ban any costumes even remotely upsetting, falsely painting a picture of All Hallow's Eve as purely sweetness and light).  This news, coupled with the fact that he hadn't had an afternoon snack, desperately needed a nap, and also had to pee, caused a breakdown right there in the aisle of gore.   

Imgp2197 Oh, the tragedy of it all.  The other boys just walked right over him as he sat there and cried. 

Jade tried to make it better by telling him that now he could be Calvin to her Hobbes.  She's had it in her head for weeks now that the two of them should dress up as the mighty team, a not ridiculous idea since they both spend hours on end poring over voluminous editions of C&H strips.  When Jade gets an idea, she hooooooooolds onto it and it becomes her agenda, and with single-minded focus she does everything within her power to make it so. 

Imgp2198 "See Kai? I can wear this with a tiger suit.  You can wear a striped t-shirt and we'll spike your hair, and you can be Calvin.  Okay?"

"NO! I want to be something scawy!"

Sigh.

Happily, by the end of our adventure it was decided: Kai will be an awesome Captain Jack Sparrow; Jade, the melodic and sweet Gabriella from High School Musical.  Now let the putting together of the costumes commence!
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Speaking of costumes, this is one of those typos that drives me nuts:

Imgp2200 Copyeditor's kneaded.

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* I don't know about you, but I certainly would not want to be stranded on the Isle of Gore. Ew.

September 10, 2007

me and my boy, we see eye to eye

The other night I was helping Kai root through our DVD and video collection for something to watch while Jade was away at her friend's house.  We discovered so very many old Disney videos that Jade used to watch way back when: Cinderella, Beauty and the Beast, Sleeping Beauty (2 copies), The Swan Princess, etc.  Kai was clearly annoyed with having to choose from among all those girls in big taffeta dresses.

"How come they never make these movies where the bad guys win?"

"You mean like where the princess gets slaughtered?"

"What's 'slaughtered'?"

"It means to be killed in a really bad way. A lot.  By the bad guys."

"Yeah! How come they don't make that movie? I would watch that movie."

September 05, 2007

because we ethnic ones all look alike

Jade's first day of school was today* and, because the teachers apparently need time to ease into their jobs, it was only a half day.  (What about the parents? Don't we deserve to get rid of our kids for a whole day?  Isn't that what we're paying for?)  I arrived at 12:05 to pick up Jade, then stood on the blacktop for about 25 minutes talking to other parents.  Meanwhile, Jade ran around with her friend.

When we got back to the car there was a message on my cell phone from one of the administrative staff at the school.  "Hi," she began, "I'm calling because I have Jade here in the office and I was wondering if you remembered it's a half day today.  It's 12:14 now, and we don't see you anywhere." 

Huh?

I had arrived on campus just after noon, and Jade was right there on the blacktop.  I asked her if she had gone to the office at all today, but she said no.  Puzzled, I called the school as I was driving away, and I asked for the person who had left me the message.  A person I have interacted with countless times during our three and a half years there.  When she got on the phone she asked if I remembered it was a half day.  "Um, yes. In fact, I picked Jade up a half hour ago.  She's here in the car with me."   

Pause.

"Ohhhh.  I thought it was Jade in here, but I just took a quick look. It's actually someone else," she replied quite incredibly, as she had had this child sitting in her office for 15 minutes.  "I guess I better call her mom now."

Given that this is Jade's fourth year at the school, and it's a very small school, and most of the kids are blonde, I was curious to know who was sitting in the office.

"So who's sitting in the office?" I asked.

Turns out it was a little girl-- a first grader!--of mixed Middle Eastern/white parentage who looks nothing like Jade but for the fact that she has non-blonde hair and brown eyes.  The girl, while absolutely adorable I admit, is about, ohhhhh, at least a foot shorter and obviously much younger, and she was wearing a uniform of the younger grades.

It is pathetic enough that some of the kids confuse Jade with another girl a grade lower who, while half-Japanese, looks nothing like her.  (Granted, they both have hair and eyes.)  But kids can be lame that way.  For an adult who has known us for years to confuse Jade with a little kid who looks nothing like her? Kinda makes me lose faith in all you round-eyed white people.

Ha ha.

 

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* Incidentally, regarding the return of children to school, I have had this audio tattoo all day: "I'm FREE! To do what I want! Any old tiiiiime!"

for peet's sake

May he rest in Peets peace.

When I was at Peets in La Jolla yesterday morning, all the lights were off.  I thought it must be some kind of tribute to the great Alfred Peet, who had just passed away.  I asked the barista if they dimmed the lights in memory of their iconic founder and she she looked at me like she had no idea who he was, much less that he had died.

"No.  The air conditioning broke.  We're just trying to keep cool in here." 

[Sigh.] You kids these days.

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